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At the Back of Your Mind: Anal Pleasure through Oral Sex

This year is predicted to be the year of the broken taboo , particularly as it pertains to the exploration of anal pleasure. Outdated stigmas and assumptions are being shed and we’re shifting towards a more tolerant cultural space, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. Our fans have not bee...

2025-12-12  3840

Anal Sex 101: Tips & Advice for Making it More Enjoyable for Both Partners

There are a lot of presuppositions and myths about anal sex:Men want it more. It’s not pleasurable for her. Everyone’s doing it apart from you. There’s no such thing as an anal orgasm. So on and so forth. These sex myths are demonstrably untrue; all they do is expose the fact that people do...

2025-11-10  3914

Do Male Anal Orgasms Exist? LELO Investigates the Prostate Climax

Prostate (n.): 1640s, from Greek prostates “leader, ruler, guardian; one standing in front,” s o called from its position at the base of the bladder. It’s an important part of the male anatomy that plays an essential role in reproductive health — however for all the talk of the pro...

2025-11-02  2420

Pegging: What, Why & How

What is Pegging? Pegging generally refers to a ciswoman penetrating their heterosexual male partner anally. While the term ‘pegging’ was coined in 2001 as part of a submission contest held by sex advice columnist Dan Savage, the practice has obviously been around for much, much longer than that....

2025-10-01  4194

Taken Down a Peg: A Straight Guy’s View of Being Pegged

The following is a piece from one of Volonté’s male contributors who wished to have it published anonymously. It was her idea, and the confidence with which she told me she wanted to do it to me put me at ease. “Yeah. Sure. Why not?” I replied, when she showed me the picture of a strap-on d...

2025-09-20  5319

LELO Sex Position of the Week: Four on the Floor

Position Difficulty:1/5 Pros As more and more couples begin to experiment with anal play such as anal sex, prostate massage , and pegging , performing analingus, or rimming, is the next sexy frontier. While you can rim someone as they lie in front of you on their back, it may be difficult to kee...

2025-07-03  6591

Why Anal and Prostate Play Are Worth Exploring

Volonté is excited to feature the writings of several sex and relationship experts from Dr. Ian Kerner’s project, Good in Bed . This week we welcome Joe Kort PhD, a licensed sex and relationship therapist who specializes in sex therapy, LGBTQ issues and Imago Relationship Therapy. Below he discus...

2025-07-01  5355

Prostates, Pegging & Plugs: 3 P’s of Male Pleasure

There’s more than one route to male pleasure! But while discussions tend to focus exclusively on external stimulation – that is, his penis – like most things in life, it’s what’s on the inside that counts. Introducing the prostate, a gem of a gland responsible for storing semen and door to...

2025-06-11  8359

Can You Use a G-Spot Toy As A Prostate Massager?

Despite the information that men buy more sex toys than women, it’s reasonably accurate to say that the majority of sex toys developed today are aimed at women. Men are amply catered for in terms of personal pleasure, but statistically it’s women who hold the monopoly on vibrators. Why should th...

2025-04-10  4276

LOKI vs LOKI Wave vs BILLY 2 – Prostate Massagers

If you’re one of the many people curious about incorporating prostate massage into masturbation or coupled sex , you might be having trouble deciding which prostate massager is perfect for you. Products like HUGO and BRUNO , while offering hands-free stimulation, are designed to be ‘worn’; LOK...

2025-04-03  7116