According to George Carlin, “If God had intended us not to masturbate, he would have made our arms shorter.” A recent representative survey of 6000 14-94 year old US citizens found that virtually all of them had masturbated at some point in their lives. That should be no real surprise: it se...
You may have heard the word “G-spot” being thrown around a few times. And you might know where the G-spot is and how to stimulate it. Heck, we even have a range of sex toys that specifically target the G-spot ! But that’s not why we’re here today! We’re here to talk about another...
Consider this guys: the way you masturbate is the same way you’ve been doing it for your entire sexually active life. For instance, this writer is in his mid-30s, which means that it’s been the same rub-and-tug for over 20 years now. Now, I am sure that you’re not sick of masturbating or any...
It is estimated that 37 to 39 percent of penis-owners are circumcised globally. This means the majority of penises have foreskins and yet, there are too few resources for how to effectively stimulate an uncircumcised penis. Part of the blame, at least in my opinion, is that anywhere between 76 to ...
At LELO, we get asked all the time whether using a sex toy will reduce your sensitivity over time. This should be an easy one to refute. After all, if you’re ticklish, you don’t get less ticklish over time, right? There isn’t a mechanic by which interaction with the skin will cause the skin to...
Hey all! It’s Dr. Zhana and I’m back to answer all your questions about *drumroll please*… orgasms ! Your questions were so good and so different from the questions I usually get, so I’m really excited about this. Most of your questions were actually really specific and physiological...
It wasn’t until recently that I realized what I was doing even had a name. That bringing myself close to orgasm — and then quickly pulling away at the very last moment — was a sexy technique commonly referred to as edging. How this game first made its way into my bedroom repertoire remains a m...
This article was scientifically reviewed by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz . She is a professor, researcher, private practitioner and Fellow of the American Psychological Association. Sex is complicated. I often wonder if we knew that there were consequences up front, would we ever ...
One of the main reasons I started Killing Kittens (internationally-known exclusive sex parties ) is down to my belief that women deserve to have mind-blowing sex. Sex is fantastic for wellbeing and improves mental and physical health, but the truth is that for lots of couples the sex is a little bor...
We get it: you’re busy! What with work, socializing with friends, hitting the gym, house admin, maybe childcare, daydreams about marathon sex sessions can end up being just that: a fantasy. But it’s true what they say – where there’s a will, there’s some very sexy ways to ensure both of yo...
This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz . Our previous findings about oral sex, both from our oral sex mini survey and through the LELO Global Survey , have revealed some interesting (but perhaps not so surprising) things about oral sex: Over 90% of...
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So you want to give your partner a blowjob that’ll make his knees weak? Yeah, we’ve got you covered! We’re so well-versed in the art of giving great head, in fact, that we’ve compiled a mega blowjob guide with 50 blowjob tips. Go from zero to hero in a matter of 5 to 10 minutes (or however l...
2025-11-21 3522
Dear LELOI’ve never had reason to doubt my oral sex skills before, but my current partner is….well, significantly bigger than partners I’ve had before in terms of length and girth. He hasn’t complained about my blow jobs, but I usually can’t finish because my jaw gets too sore or I start g...
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Through the ages sex, sexuality and sexual practises has wavered in and out of favor, moving from one side of the moral scale of acceptability to the other. When at one time there would be near complete freedom, at other points in history, anything other than strict procreation was considered devian...
2025-10-19 2786
Position Difficulty: 1/5 Pros: This is one of our favorite sex positions for kinky role play , as the placement of the blowjob receiver in a chair is great for some kinky Domination scenarios! Not into being submissive? You can also use restraints to keep your partner tied to the chair while ...
2025-10-09 2922
This year is predicted to be the year of the broken taboo , particularly as it pertains to the exploration of anal pleasure. Outdated stigmas and assumptions are being shed and we’re shifting towards a more tolerant cultural space, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. Our fans have not bee...
2025-12-12 3840
There are a lot of presuppositions and myths about anal sex:Men want it more. It’s not pleasurable for her. Everyone’s doing it apart from you. There’s no such thing as an anal orgasm. So on and so forth. These sex myths are demonstrably untrue; all they do is expose the fact that people do...
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Prostate (n.): 1640s, from Greek prostates “leader, ruler, guardian; one standing in front,” s o called from its position at the base of the bladder. It’s an important part of the male anatomy that plays an essential role in reproductive health — however for all the talk of the pro...
2025-11-02 2420
What is Pegging? Pegging generally refers to a ciswoman penetrating their heterosexual male partner anally. While the term ‘pegging’ was coined in 2001 as part of a submission contest held by sex advice columnist Dan Savage, the practice has obviously been around for much, much longer than that....
2025-10-01 4194
The following is a piece from one of Volonté’s male contributors who wished to have it published anonymously. It was her idea, and the confidence with which she told me she wanted to do it to me put me at ease. “Yeah. Sure. Why not?” I replied, when she showed me the picture of a strap-on d...
2025-09-20 5319